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I Didn’t Choose to Become an Egalitarian

I Didn’t Choose to Become an Egalitarian

What makes you an egalitarian, and when do you become one?

Written by: Carrie Fernandez

I’m a southern girl, the middle child, one of three daughters in my family of five.

My daddy gloried in raising up three, strong-willed women. He taught us early on to assert ourselves, with frequent reminders to never let anyone walk all over us, to stand up for ourselves because we mattered. He believed we could do anything we set our minds to, challenging us and giving his all as he raced us around the go-cart track, pushing us to play our best during family basketball games, never taking it easy because we were girls. I admired my dad and longed for his approval, and there was never a moment from my childhood, adolescence, or adulthood when I didn’t receive it. When meeting others, he introduced my sisters and me with the pride of an Olympian, placing his arm around our shoulders and smiling down on us, his three gold medals.

Was it then I became an Egalitarian?

Did my dad’s ability to see beyond my gender to my soul shape my views on my place in the world? Did I subconsciously apply the complete, direct access I enjoyed to my dad’s love as his daughter to my Father God’s love, as well? (Ephesians 2:18)

Growing up in the mountains of North Carolina, I was surrounded daily by the beauty of God’s creation. Long hikes up steep trails to the top of Grandfather Mountain left me panting and sweating, breathless from the exertion of the climb. Standing triumphant at the peak, I tried to catch my breath again as the bigness of God’s creation left me in state of speechless awe.

Was it then I became an Egalitarian?

Did observing the beauty of God’s creation remind me of my own beauty? Did standing among the peaks of towering mountains help me realize my prominence in the eyes of God? (Matthew 10:31)

As a literature major in college, I read about strong, heroic, female protagonists. Through Jane Eyre’s self-assertion and independence during the Victorian era in Jane Eyre and Scout Finch’s rebellion against gender stereotypes of the 1930’s in To Kill a Mockingbird, I found myself relating on a deep level to each character’s trials and frustrations. I identified with their desires to simply be who they were born to be during time periods when societal expectations limited women and stifled their natural desires to participate fully in a patriarchal world.

Was it then I became an Egalitarian?

Did the ever-present struggle for equality which permeates many classical and modern works of literature help me better understand my own internal desire to assert myself in every arena of my life? Did the tenacious spirits of Elizabeth Bennet in Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice or Jo March in Louisa May Alcott’s Little Women remind me so much of myself that I began to feel less alone and marginalized in my desires for liberty?

After a failed marriage, I recommitted my life to a man who loves and accepts me for me. Standing together on a scorching day in July, I vowed to love him, to cherish him, and to remain faithful and true forever; I did not, however, vow to obey him. He didn’t want me to make a promise of obedience any more than I did. From the beginning of our relationship, we have assumed equal roles as partners, never bartering out expectations on things like submission or assigning man-made roles and titles like spiritual leader and headship. My husband doesn’t expect me to shrink smaller, quiet my voice, or climb down a few notches on a patriarchal spiritual ladder to prove to others we are engaging in a Biblical marriage. We have naturally partnered in every facet of our parenting and marriage, each of us submitting to Christ’s will, losing ourselves, not for each other, but for Christ only and always. Our marriage reflects the true beauty of partnership in that we recognize the value of sometimes allowing the other person to lead. It’s an ebb and flow; it’s fluid, organic, and free. When I’m down, I relinquish the reigns for a while, trusting in where my husband will lead. I fall back for a bit and take refuge in his shadow; when I’m well and my strength has returned, I step out of his shelter and back into the void by his side. When life becomes too much and he needs a respite from the demands of his life roles, he knows he can do the same. After those breaks, those rests, we resume our walk together, side-by-side, hand-in-hand, partners until the end.

Was it then I became an Egalitarian?

Did falling in love with someone who values and respects the very character traits which fuel others’ perceptions of me as a failed example of Biblical womanhood reaffirm my equal value as a daughter of God? Did marrying a man who fosters my freedom within our marriage further verify my complete freedom in Christ? (2 Corinthians 3:17)

In April of 2007, I had my son. I never knew love like the love I felt when I held his squirming, slippery body against my own, his tiny wails piercing my heart, causing an ache so deep I thought it might explode. During the three years when my son was the only child, I learned a lot about love, particularly the love of a parent. Parental love is fierce, incessant, and all-consuming. Having my daughter taught me it’s also without bias and without hierarchy. When I stared through my tears at my daughter’s blurry, beautiful face in March of 2010, the love I experienced was equal to that of her brother. An identical space opened in my heart where my love for her grows with the same fervour as my love for my son; it’s just as fierce, just as incessant, just as consuming. I have a son and a daughter, but like my dad, I see past their genders to their souls. I see each as a part of my husband and me, a creation purposed from the same union of love. Each is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Each is gifted with talents capable of changing the world (1 Corinthians 12: 4-6). Each is a child of God, created in the same image and with the same love (Genesis 5: 1-2).

Is this how I became an Egalitarian?

Does my inability to imagine and expect less of my daughter further my understanding of a fair and just God? Does observing the equality of my own love for my son and daughter affirm the equitable love of our Creator for all of His children? Galatians 3:28

I’m an egalitarian.

Looking back, I can’t pinpoint the specific moment in time when I assumed the title. Perhaps that moment doesn’t even exist. I think for me, the evolution of my spiritual journey has resulted in a faith which denotes all aspects of egalitarianism. For as long as I can remember, that still small voice has spoken softly affirmations of my worth. Through the unconditional, unbiased love of my dad, the Holy Spirit whispered, “You are loved” (John 3:16). Standing breathless at the top of Grandfather Mountain, the Holy Spirit murmured, “I have purposed you in my heart” (Isaiah 64:8). Partnering with my husband as a spiritual leader in our home, God assures, “Bring me my son and my daughter. The fruit of your labour is good” (Isaiah 43:6). Seeing each of my children as God’s image-bearers, equally powerful and important and free, I hear the sigh of the Holy Spirit, “Yes, yes, this is right. This is truth. Carry on, child of mine, carry on” (Matthew 28: 18-20).

So I do. So I will.
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Follow the Leader

Written by: Wilma Luimes

“No. You can’t play. I am the boss of this game.” Johnny shouts. Sarah turns away dejected. It’s standard ‘modus operandi’ on playgrounds around the world. The struggle for power, status and prestige. Johnny declares a new game. “Follow the leader,” he announces. Those who are ‘not allowed’ to play watch from a distance. And all the other boys and girls line up behind Johnny in their full stature of Velcro shoes, pigtails, ribbons, cartoon crested t-shirts and begin their march around the playground, over the monkey bars, through the tunnel… And for a while, all the children are enjoying the new game.

Eventually, Tommy is brave enough to ask, isn’t it time for someone else to be the leader? Tommy kicks his new sneaker against the ground impatiently.“No!” Johnny shouts. “I am the leader.” Tommy looks around disgruntled and continues playing for a few minutes but eventually goes off with a ball to go and play soccer instead. A few of the other ‘followers’ join him; leaving the line much shorter than when the game began.

A short while later, Christine takes a few of her friends out of the line to go and play with a skipping rope. Soon ‘the boss’ mentality leaves Johnny all alone on the playground. Ironically often organisations don’t behave much different. The predominant male belief that ‘we are the boss of this church’… is an echo that has and still reverberates from many a church building through the ages with a blatant disregard for the fruit that spirit produces. And while the male-dominated spirit is still prevalent in many a church today, somehow, I seriously doubt that God agrees on the outcomes… because when it’s about power, status and prestige; God is not in it!

The love has disappeared.

And often the difference between good leadership and great leadership is the ability to know when to step forward and when to step back!

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In God’s Image

In God’s Image

Written by: Wilma Luimes

In the name of fighting injustice we often forget to fight the issue and start fighting a perceived enemy. The battle is not against a person, it is a fight against the perception of superiority and the subsequent imbalance of power it creates; an internalised ‘perception of truth and entitlement’ that justifies human rights violations. The battle for gender equality is not a fight that is intended to create a face-off between women and men. It is a struggle against the imbalance of power that the ideology of patriarchy has created. An active dispute against the assumptions that form the foundation of sexism and an affirmation of women’s value not a defamation of men’s worth.The imbalance of value has caused both men and women to lose their humanity. To perpetuate violence is to root oneself in the ideology of hatred. And once hatred is entrenched, it tarnishes all that is good and valuable in one’s life.‘Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.’ Matthew 5:8. The ideology of sexism (or any ‘ism) blocks one’s ability to see God clearly. For God created male and female in his image, Genesis 1:27 and failing to see the image of God in another person is an inability to see God.

My father was instrumental in teaching me that women are valuable. He never spoke about women with disrespect. That was not ok at our house. That is the foundation that informs my perspective on gender equity. Women are valuable and deserve to be respected. That was also the basis for my divorce and the reason that I would not allow my daughter’s father to teach her otherwise; for she too is worthy of respect.So I do not advocate for gender equity as a fight of women against men. I have a healthy appreciation for men. Men who value women that is, those who mirror the character of God in their relationships and honour the most high God in their lives. So while respect is given because we recognise the image of God in people, trust is earned.

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For Brown Girls Who Considered Leaving The Church When The Sexism Was Too Much

For Brown Girls Who Considered Leaving The Church When The Sexism Was Too Much

Written by: Kimberly Peerler-Ringer

Since dismantling patriarchy is one of my approaches to reading the Scriptures, I want to talk first about what it is and why I position myself against it.

Patriarchy, in its simplest terms, is the privileging of maleness.

Patriarchy is also a system that functions much like racism in that there are institutional and embedded structures that oppress women through social, political, and economic practices.

The United States reflects a culture that values maleness.

A recent study in The Washington Post reports that white men make up about 31% of the entire population of the United States, yet are 65% of all elected officials. In other words, white men occupy more than half of the seats of power in this country. That breaks down to white men having eight times the political power nonwhite women do. Another study reports that 83% of this country’s elected prosecutors are white males. Only 1% of U.S. prosecutors are women of color. The lawmakers and law enforcers of this country are primarily white males.

Like the country we live in, the Bible reflects a culture that privileges maleness.

An example of this is the woman caught in adultery in John 7:53-8:11:Then each of them went home, while Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him and he sat down and began to teach them. The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery; and making her stand before all of them, they said to him, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery. Now in the law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” They said this to test him, so that they might have some charge to bring against him.Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” And once again he bent down and wrote on the ground. When they heard it, they went away, one by one, beginning with the elders; and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. Jesus straightened up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” She said, “No one, sir.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you. Go your way, and from now on do not sin again.” (NRSV)The act of adultery requires at least two persons, right? But whomever it was that she was committing adultery with was apparently let off with a warning since it was only she who was brought before Jesus. Maleness is also privileged in many of the genealogy references in the Bible, such as Genesis 6:10 that tells us Noah had three sons, again, presumably, all by himself, since their mother(s) is not mentioned.

A lot of Black women occupy pews in churches that privilege maleness.

Some even teach and uphold certain cultural norms from an ancient culture that some argue relegate women to “second class” status. Like the decision makers in American law and order are primarily white males, many churches have men in the positions of power despite the fact that women are the overwhelming majority group of many congregations.Let’s break that down even further: single Black women are a large percentage of black church membership. But I have not encountered many single Black female Christians who were happy and content with the so-called “singles’ ministries” of the churches they attend. The lack of attention to this large segment of the church renders them invisible. Add to that the erasing effect stereotypes have upon Black female humanity and I think it becomes clear why some brown girls have considered leaving the church when the sexism got to be too much.

I do not believe God is sexist.

I do not believe that men have something in common with God that women do not. I believe Jesus practiced a discipleship of equals. And we can choose to read the Bible in ways that recover the oft-silenced voice of the Feminine Divine. Here is an example of that.The fifteenth chapter of Luke begins with Jesus at odds with religious leaders and he uses a trilogy of parables to show them and us that God values everybody. All three of these teachings focus on various states of lostness: a lost sheep, a lost coin, and a lost son. In all three parables, the person who lost something is a representation of God’s diligence: God as the shepherd who will drop all to find the one lost sheep, God as the father filled with compassion who rushes to greet his lost son upon his return home, and…

God as the woman who lit a lamp and swept her home until she found her lost coin.

Clearly, religion, the Bible, and culture mutually influence each other, because we often skip right over this image of God as female. Resisting patriarchy and making a different choice about the lens through which we view the Scriptures empowers us to reshape how we think about ourselves.

God is a brown girl too, after all.
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Women, You are Called

Women, You are Called

Written by: Wilma Luimes

I love the bible story of Deborah. For starters, it’s all about women’s leadership, for she was both a prophetess and the leader of Israel as a Judge, which historically in the Jewish tradition was a military leader, (Deborah 4:4) for more than forty years. Incidentally, she was also the wife of Lappidoth. I cannot help but note that God’s mandate to go to war did not come via Lappidoth, dare I question it; the “head of the home”? Just sayin’…(☺)!

Clearly God’s divine gifting is individually allocated and different between husband and wife; gifting that is aligned with our individual callings and God-given purposes for which we will account to our Creator, not to our spouses. That said, Lappidoth interests me. Clearly he was a man whose understanding of divine calling was rather different than the average man, for his culture embraced and endorsed a wide gender divide. By virtue of his wife’s role in the country, he was a man who understood the benefits of allowing his wife to operate in her God-given giftings which were:

  • Peace both in his home and in his country; literally… she led an army out to war and when the battle was won “the land had peace for forty years” (Judges 5:31).
  • Access to godly wisdom as God spoke directly to his wife and she was humble enough to listen and be used by Him.
  • An awareness that the calling over his wife’s life would never be detrimental to him as her partner, but would be a rich source of blessing.
  • The benefits of a partnership that used the strengths of both parties to better everyone’s lives, including their own.

This story reminds us that God’s victory is given not to those who have been commissioned to go but to those who respond to the sender and step out in faith. And in this case, the Bible makes it abundantly clear that the men who had been sent would not be given the victory; the victory would belong to the women who responded to His call. She [Deborah] sent for Barak son of Abinoam from Kedesh in Naphtali and said to him, “The Lord, the God of Israel, commands you: ‘Go, take with you ten thousand men of Naphtali and Zebulun and lead them up to Mount Tabor. 7 I will lead Sisera, the commander of Jabin’s army, with his chariots and his troops to the Kishon River and give him into your hands.” Barak said to her, “If you go with me, I will go; but if you don’t go with me, I won’t go. “Certainly, I will go with you,” said Deborah. “But because of the course you are taking, the honour will not be yours, for the Lord will deliver Sisera into the hands of a woman.” So Deborah went with Barak to Kedesh. There Barak summoned Zebulun and Naphtali, and ten thousand men went up under his command. Deborah also went up with him.(Deborah 4:6-10 NIV)

The lack of women’s leadership within the church and society is a two-fold problem.

There is a culture that has been created to stifle women’s growth within the church and elsewhere called patriarchy. That is a given. But there is also a culture among many women of complacency and contentment with that lot. Notice that both of the scenarios are not God’s intention for gender relations between men and women. Again we all need to be reminded ‘God’s victories belong to those who respond to the call’.
Women, being a wife and a mother are not your calling because that would make your divine purpose subject to human approval.

That’s a role you play in your families. A calling or purpose is a visible ‘heart for a need’ with an impact measured in lives changed. God’s success is measured in the number of souls saved and only you can stop or delay your purpose. God’s plans for your life cannot be subject to the approval of another human being. Your calling is much bigger than that and between you and your Creator, not you and your husband; albeit your calling may be a co-calling with your spouse. What worries me is the number of divine callings that remain unfulfilled in the name of ‘godly marriage’. So to all the women out there…

  • Are you humble enough to be used by Him?
  • Courageous enough to act on the vision you have been given?
  • Attuned enough to recognise Him as the source and intention of His purpose in this world?
  • Wise enough to understand your role as the vehicle through which God establishes His will in this world?

Ladies, really; it’s about time! God’s been calling.

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God’s Plan Cannot be Patriarchy…

God’s Plan Cannot be Patriarchy…

Written by: Wilma Luimes

…because love imparts value and doesn’t seek to control.
For generations in many churches, patriarchy has been passed off as the divine order of things. Its foundation lay in a quest for power and the legitimization of male leadership. But a divine order must produce godly fruit and blind, unqualified submission to an ungodly man, produces destruction and death. How can that be God’s plan for women’s lives in the context of marriage? Simply put. It’s not; for death and destruction are not of God. Loving someone means to impart a value to someone else equivalent to one’s own and give them what they need; [not necessarily what they want] and love shows up when needed. The pursuit of power instead of love, justified at women’s expense, the fruit produced in an imbalanced relationship, and inability of patriarchy to meet the needs of millions of women and children around the world should have sounded the alarm of its fallacy and illuminated the reality that its roots are a result of sin (Genesis 3:16), not godly hierarchy as so many would like us to believe; a deception that has become a widely accepted societal norm. For loving someone as God requires is to take into account their well-being and ensure their needs are met; for they are neither worthless nor worth less than anyone else. That seems contrary to a worldly view of love that sells love as free, easily accessible, a form of self-gratification and a means to meets one’s own needs often at someone else’s expense. It is however an accurate reflection of Jesus’ life which illustrates true love as an empathy and compassion for the needs of people that generated action. This is apparent as during his ministry, Jesus met the need for:

  • Healing (woman with bleeding; Matthew 9:20 & Mark 5:29, Peter’s mother-in-law; Matthew 8, paralysed man; John 5, man with the withered hand; Matthew 12:10, the royal official’s son, a leper; Matthew 8, 10 lepers; Luke 17, the Centurion’s servant; Matthew 8, Bartimaeus of blindness; Mark 10:46, restoring the severed; ear Matthew 26, etc.)
  • Counsel (Samaritan woman; John 4, Zacchaeus; Luke 19, Mary and Martha; Luke 10:38, disciples, little children; Matthew 19:13, the rich man; Matthew 19)
  • Grace, compassion and protection (Samaritan woman; John 4, woman accused of adultery; John 8:4, etc.)
  • Food (the feeding of the five thousand; Matthew 14 & Mark 6, four thousand; Mark 8)
  • Life by raising up the dead (Lazarus; John 11, the widow’s son; Luke 7, Jairus’ daughter; Mark 5:35)
  • Peace (healing from demonic spirits – man from Capernaum , Gerasene man possessed by demons; Mark 5, etc.).
  • Justice. “Here is my servant whom I have chosen, the one I love, in whom I delight; I will put my Spirit on him, and he will proclaim justice to the nations” Matthew 12: 18.
  • Truth – “I am the truth, the way and the life. No one comes to the father but through me” John 14:6.
  • Salvation – “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son. That who so ever believes in him shall have everlasting life” John 3:16.

The life and ministry of Jesus Christ demonstrates God’s equal value for humanity; men, women and children alike. His response to those in need shows us his heart.(Incidentally Jesus also met the need for wine… John 2; but that’s a story for another blog… ☺ ) Patriarchy, in contrast, seeks to accumulate power and dominate women. God’s plan for marriage was not that. Men do not ‘need’ blind submission and women should not be blindly submitting. God’s plan for marriage requires mutual submission and accountability; “submit to one another out of reference for Christ” (Ephesians 5:21). Marriage was intended to be a relationship where needs are met and where love shows up when needed and where both parties hold each other as valuable; a relationship of love and protection. Patriarchy teaches and produces something else altogether…

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The War on Worship

The War on Worship

By Simon McCauley 22 year old worshipper

Photo by Oscar Keys on Unsplash

If there’s one thing that really excites me, it’s a hot and controversial debate. Which is why my interest was immediately sparked when I was sent an article on Facebook entitled “It’s Time to Boycott the Worship Industry”.

Now, I must say that I may hold a biased opinion on this matter as I actually work as a musician in the worship industry, but I’ll be sure to approach my argument as logically as I can. Nonetheless, I will certainly be picking apart each element as we go (apologies in advance for when my irritation begins to show through my writing).

Okay, let’s get started.

Essentially, the opening paragraph of what will be referred to as ‘The Boycott Article‘ makes two distinct statements:

  • The first is that Christian culture’s boycotts often “make us look arrogant, aloof, and disconnected” and are often ineffective anyway.
  • The second is that a boycott of an aspect of the Christian culture itself may be more successful than boycotting corporations because – and this is a direct quote here – “it’s time for us to boycott an industry that cares very much what the whole church thinks. We’re their only hope of staying afloat.”

To me, the phrase “we’re their only hope of staying afloat” sounds a little arrogant (even aloof, maybe?) but we’ll ignore it for now – the point is that the author of The Boycott Article is clearly upset with the worship industry and is hoping that the rest of the Christian community will join in on his cause and make a change.


The author poses 5 points for why the worship industry needs to be boycotted and, truthfully, I agree with most of the points. But as each point gets explained, assumptions are made and arguments are formed that don’t hold much water, and I’ve taken it upon myself to poke holes wherever possible. Here goes:

  1. Boycott the worship industry because money shouldn’t drive what the churches sing.”Correct. Money shouldn’t necessarily be the single driving force for anything in the church; biblical / spiritual content should be. However, the article states that worship has become an industry, therefore it is required to generate income and as result “it doesn’t give us what we need.” What I found throughout this article is a number of absolute thoughts, thoughts that are only comprised of one single concept. In this case, the thought is “INDUSTRY = MONEY = NO GOD.” It seems that the author is incapable of considering that it is possible for worship to be spiritual and generate income. In fact, if we follow this logic through, the reason any industry within the Christian community would have a chance of success was if it in fact did give us what we needed. What happened to “we’re their only hope of staying afloat”? Surely, if everyone was so starved for spiritual content, the industry would be dead already? The author, in an uninformed attempt to strengthen this point, makes reference to how original congregational song was crafted by pastors, theologians and poets. Excuse me? That’s literally exactly how most mainstream worship music is written. We have pastors like Ps Joel Houston writing for Hillsong and Ps Steven Furtick writing most of Elevation Worship’s material. Beyond that, almost all the songwriters for most mainstream worship artists have all studied theology to some degree – Taya Smith, Cory Asbury, Kim Walker-Smith, Chris Tomlin, etc. If you’ve ever stopped to listen their lyrical content or hear them discuss their own songs, you may find a lot more poetry and theology within their so-called “mainstream music” than you’d expect. You cannot assume that success immediately means a lack of content.
  2. Boycott the worship industry because the it creates its own idols.”Yes, I agree that idolising worship leaders is wrong, but once again the author uses illogical absolute thoughts to prove his point. The author seems to be upset that people like Chris Tomlin and Michael W. Smith (and basically every other well-known Christian artist) have become successful, that they sell books and t-shirts and concert tickets. I must reiterate that it is possible for success to be secondary to service, it is not an absolute. Luckily, the author admits that these artists’ intentions may not be wrong but that “they’re mere pawns in the industry’s game” (this too feels like an arrogant and aloof statement, but we’ll ignore it for now). May I remind you all that in Matthew 25 Jesus taught us to grow our God-given talents and in Ecclesiastes 9 we are instructed do everything as best we can in order to glorify God. So, in some way, would it be dishonourable to God if we didn’t allow musicians or singers or songwriters to be successful? Alternatively, if this ominous and evil industry that the author is so concerned about is actually benefitting from the artists who have pure intentions and are using their talents to create a worship environment for us, what is the actual harm to you and I? Should we rather send our artists into the cut-throat secular music industry where money is clearly and openly the single driving force? Also, why is it that you’re most upset by the music aspect of this issue? If you’re really concerned with idolatry, why aren’t you boycotting successful pastors or wealthy churches? I can guarantee you that the world’s most successful Christian music artist doesn’t have nearly as many private jets as the world’s most successful pastor. This conceptual battle against “the industry” – despite being riddled with misinformation and logical errors – is aimed in the wrong direction as a whole.
  3. Boycott the worship industry because the congregation’s voice should be primary.”The Boycott Article claims that the worship industry mimics mainstream commercial genres and is therefore purely for performance. Oh, I have many many issues with this point in particular. Firstly, another absolute thought (starting to see a pattern here or…?) Why is it so inconceivable that one genre or another can carry pure intention? Secondly, what’s wrong with change and evolution of sound? When Jesus came around, He was blowing everybody’s minds, He was extremely radical and He flew in the face of tradition and rules and boundaries. Thirdly, the author states “their material isn’t rising organically from the people.” But I would argue quite strongly that material rising from the congregation would itself mimic commercial mainstream music because the congregation is constantly evolving too (unless, of course, your congregation is restricted to persons over the age of 40 who are completely disconnected from all forms of mainstream media). Fourthly, the article states “it’s not crafted with good congregational singing in mind.” I have personally sat through multiple staff meetings trying to decide which material would be best suited to sing with our congregation. I’ve also spent hours in songwriting sessions reviewing and rewriting lyrics and music so that it would be specifically tailored to our congregation. Fifthly, the author claims that modern worship is made for a group to perform to a passive audience and that mainstream genres are “just not right for us”. Right now, I’m 22 years old. I run the youth band in my church. I would give 6 months worth of my salary to see the author of this article bring a pipe organ to our youth and sing what he thinks “real worship” music is and then we can have a conversation about a passive audience. Let me clarify, I’m not saying that modern worship should be thrown at everyone and all older music should be scrapped. The point I’m trying to make is that it is completely unfair and unjustified to assume that only one genre will work. Later in the article, the author writes “there are many of you: all ages, denominations, and cultural backgrounds” and yet he has absolutely no concept of the difference in taste or experience for any of those ages, denominations or culture. He inadvertently ends up forcing his own ideals and expectations onto everyone else – which is probably what he feels the modern worship industry is doing to him. Either way, I don’t think it’s right to put such harsh restrictions on what worship can or cannot be. Not one bit.
  4. Boycott the worship industry because emotionalism is not worship.”The author claims that modern worship is used solely to manipulate our emotions and entrance us. My first reaction to this was “but you JUST said that modern worship was made to be performed to a passive audience.” However, I then started to think about the point itself and I can honestly say that I don’t understand it. Granted, not all emotions are spiritual, but all of my spiritual experiences have been very emotional too – I find it almost impossible to separate the two. Does this point suggest that the old worship that the author so desperately yearns for lacks an emotive result? I genuinely don’t know what the author is suggesting. And let’s look at it another way: there are certain old worship songs and even hymns that make me very emotional. Is that emotional manipulation too and if so, does that mean it’s so-called “emotionalism” and therefore not worship? At this point I really had to stop and wonder if the author was just finding reasons to be mad at the industry without actually thinking through each point. It just doesn’t add up in my mind.
  5. Boycott the worship industry because simply being a silently dissatisfied customer won’t fix anything.”Honestly, this part of The Boycott Article was most upsetting and ultimately disrespectful to the reader. The author makes multiple ill-informed assumptions about his audience in order to prove his point. For example: “What we’ve done with worship makes you cringe. Your senses are dulled by the lack of artistry, the pervasive emotional manipulation. But you remain in churches controlled by the worship industry… It’s killing us, and we’re consenting to the slow, agonizing death.” To me, that is actually insulting. To assume so much about the reader, to tell them how they feel and what their experiences are, to force your opinions on others so blatantly and aggressively not only discredits the author but is also just in such poor taste. One might even describe that as arrogant, aloof and disconnected (see what I did there?).

In any case, the point that the author is so desperately grasping at is that in order to change the industry, the congregation needs to stand up and make themselves heard, which is correct. However, I can’t help but consider that perhaps the worship industry has become this way because the younger generations of congregant members and songwriters alike stood up against the monotony and cultural irrelevance that they felt about the older genre and style of worship. Maybe the reason the worship industry has changed so drastically is because the nature of church and its members have changed too and if that’s the case, the worship we have now is the truest reflection of what our congregation needs. However, I’m sure that many older congregation members may feel that The Boycott Article makes some very valid points. To them I would suggest finding a worship experience that best suits their needs, but strongly argue against tearing down what works for others.

In conclusion, I think the author was right about one thing: these boycotts do look arrogant, aloof and disconnected – or at least the delivery of this boycott did.

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